Throughout my life I had always wanted people to like me. I had made myself into a people pleaser, a victim and an occasional depressive with bursts of uncontrolled anger. I continually searched for happiness, belonging and acceptance in sex, drugs, drink and relationships which only succeeded in reaffirming what I always felt about myself 'I am not good enough'
It was only when I started to look inside myself for the answers to some of these damaging and life threatening traits that things started to change for me. My journey has been a long and slow process, mainly because I didn't reach out, I didn't ask the right people for help, I 'just got on with it'
Now at 46 I am happier, more content and at peace than I ever have been, I find myself full of confidence, able to face my fears and accept my mistakes and flaws and build a life I could only have dreamed about a few years ago.
We are all full of stories and beliefs as to why 'these things' keep happening to us and it's only when we've had enough and exhausted the external factors that we start to look inside ourselves for the answers, a process that in itself can be extremely challenging, frustrating and exhausting when we try to do this ourselves
If you just want people to like you, just want to belong, just want have something to get up for and feel passionate about thats your own, you may be a people pleaser, feeling lost and living life without passion or purpose and without ever knowing who you truly are.
If your relationships with family, friends, loved ones or partners are not how you think they should be, If you feel empty, sad, lonely or powerless, if you are frustrated with life and the way it is seemingly continually against you, then you may be living with a lack of self worth and love for yourself.
All things I can help with, the answers do not lie in books or seminars or courses or gurus or even with coaches and therapists! The answers are within you and if you need help in finding them for yourself then please get in touch and together we will find your answer.
I help men and women find themselves, own their life and claim back their lost power.
Don't just 'get on with it' get in contact with me and let's start the journey to a whole and happy you together, today.