"Three years ago, I was absolutely desperate. I'd just lost my wife in a car accident, I was grieving and recovering from the accident myself - most of my friends had abandoned me, which was especially hard as my wife and I had really treasured our friends. I thought I'd make a new start and move to Adelaide to start a new job in the Adelaide Hills, but I felt like I didn't belong at all. I felt like I wasn't welcomed by the locals and I just felt totally beaten. One day, I got talking to a guy at my local pub over a beer and this guy was Dr Robert. He told me about his program, which at that stage was only in the formative stages and he said he could coach me so I wouldn't be so lonely - and alone. The program was really challenging, even a bit confronting at times, but it was also fun and really got me back into living my life. After the 6 months, I had lots of local friends who are really supportive to this day and I really feel like an important part of my community. I can walk tall again knowing that if I run into trouble in my life, that my friends will give me a hand, just like I'll give them a hand if they have hard times. Robert's program is brilliant - just do it!"